REACH Fall 2000
CONTENTS
ADULT
Book Discussion Guide from Judith A. Frediani
Book Discussion Guide from Marjorie Bowens-Wheatley
Book Discussion Guide from Robette Dias
Book Discussion Guide from Jacqui James
Planning Your First Men's Retreat

CURRICULUM
The Great OWL Detective
An Approach to Religious Education
Secret Pal
Meditation on the UU Principles
Book Review: Sky Sash So Blue
Lessons of Loss
Program for a Youth Group

LEADERSHIP
Religious Education to Families
Annual Report from a Minister of Religious Education
Recommended Salary for DREs
Child Abuse
Religious Educators Philosophize About Their Calling
Pointers for Teacher Recruitment
LREDA Grant Program
Religious Education Grants and Scholarships
It Takes a Village
How to Kill a Religion...Or Help it Grow
Participatory Bulletin Boards
What Does an RE Class Leader Do?

PARENTING
Thoughts About Families
Book Review: Whole Parenting Guide
Intergenerational Church Celebration

SOCIAL JUSTICE
National Observance of Children's Sabbaths
Junior High Youth Work Against Racism
Six Women in a Circle
How Are The Children?
Children Sermon
UU Involvement in India

TEACHING
The Philosophy of Ramo
Essex Conversations

WORSHIP
Acorn Service
It's Not Easy to Be A UU Kid
Finding Meaning in Music
UU Twelve Days of Christmas
How Adam and Eve Grew up
Worship With Children: A Teacher's Guide
Minister's Musings
Christmas Reading
Port Towsend Christmas Story
Light of Life
Name that Tune
Religion in life Recognition Ceremony

YOUTH
Anti-Racism Movie Resources
Out of the Basement and Into the Congregation

WORSHIP WITH CHILDREN: A TEACHER'S GUIDE
Rebecca Kelley-Morgan, Religious Educator
First Parish in Bedford, MA

This guide was written as a resource in order to cultivate classroom worship in the Religious Education programs at church.

Why Worship in the Classroom?
Religious Education is more than imparting a didactic body of knowledge to our children. It encompasses rational knowledge, care and concern for each other, training in being "other-focused," and the experience of worship elements similar to what adults experience. When we offer our children the "direct experience of that transcending mystery and wonder which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life," we are educating religiously. As adults we seek the inspiration of a sermon, the peace of meditation, the comfort in voicing our cares and joys, and the sense of community when we light our chalice, the symbol we hold in common with others of our faith. This we would offer to our children as well, so that they my find a home in worship today and tomorrow, as children and as adults.

What Kind of Worship?
Worship with children can be for as long or as short a time as you and your class are willing to celebrate. Some things to keep in mind when planning worship are the age of class members and their personalities (for example, are you leading a worship for a bunch of gregarious children, kinesthetic types, pre-literate children, quiet, introspective nontalkers?).

What Goes Into Worship?
We begin with the elements of our intergenerational community worship. Music, reflection, affirmations, chalice lightings, lessons (sermons), cares and joys, hymn singing, words of meaning, time for silence, the visual feast of the sanctuary. These can be personalized for your classroom and your own leadership style. Do not think that you have to bring all of the elements of worship into every class session. You will need to consider time available, the personality of your group, and your own strengths when designing and implementing worship. For example, if you are uncomfortable with leading worship, a simple chalice lighting with a "canned" reading from curriculum resources or our hymnal can center the group and bring the spirit of "church" to "class." Or if you are conveying the spirit of religious practices, you may want to incorporate pieces of those worship traditions into your worship times. The following elements suggest some models for classroom worship.

Worship Elements
Select one or two worship elements, use them consistently, and lovingly share them with your class.

  • Chalice lighting and accompanying song or reading.
  • Chalice lighting, accompanying song or reading and sharing of cares and joys.
  • Chalice lighting, accompanying song or reading, story, and sharing of cares and joys.
  • Chalice lighting, accompanying song or reading, meditation, affirmation.
  • Chalice lighting, accompanying song or reading, meditation, lesson, sharing of cares and joys.
  • Chalice lighting and meditation.

You may notice a trend here: chalice lighting tops the list every time. Why? Because the chalice is the symbol that we commonly identify with as Unitarian Universalists. When the chalice is lit, our sanctuaries, classrooms, and meeting spaces become more than rooms filled with people. They become "church," where we are embraced by the transforming power of holiness made manifest in each other, in the world, and in our shared values. Chalice lightings are simple and easily done in any age or class setting. We have created classroom chalices for all of our rooms. Use a chalice that belongs to your class, further personalizing it.

Meditation tips: Often a sound (a chime or a single note sung) can be used to lead the children into silence. Ask the group to listen to the sound, and follow it to see if they can figure out where the sounds ends and the silence begins. Using a chime gives you about a minute and a half of silence. Three repetitions creates a five-minute meditation! Another cue for silence is "lights out." You may use a darkened room with a single chalice flame upon which to focus. With older children, art that they have created (mandalas) can work as focal points.

Music and engaging children in communal singing can present a challenge for those of us who do not consider ourselves musical. Start with a simple song/chant with repetitive lyrics or melody teaching line by line. The technique goes: Sing a line and have the children sing it back to you. When the song has been sung through in this fashion once, put two lines together and repeat the call and response singing. After a repetition or two, you're ready to put it all together!

What is a sermon if not a lesson? Anecdotes, questions, and food for thought are all part of our worship gathering. To frame your introduction to the theme of the day's class as worship may more fully engage the children in the "religious" aspect of religious education. Try it with a story or paragraphs from your curriculum.

Readings and stories abound. The religious education office has a number of anthologies, or you may find some in your curriculum. Perhaps a favorite poem or essay can speak to the class as profoundly as it has to you.

Check-ins or other sharings can be the class members' time to share the important events and feelings of their lives. As with adults, brevity wins points. To encourage this, offer the children a structure for their sharing. You may suggest a specific topic, relevant to the season (the beginning of the school year or vacation), family happenings, or the theme of the curriculum. Sharing doesn't always have to be limited to words. Artwork and pantomime can also elicit authentic sharing.

Cares and joys is a favored ritual of many children. If you are uncomfortable with candles, ask the children to place an object -- a shell or a pine cone or anything -- in a container to represent their joy or concern.

As religious educators, your attitudes and modeling of appropriate participation give your class important cues for taking part. You bring your own set of experiences and manner of presentation to your class, so consider the "technical" tips useful information to have as you and your class worship together in the spirit of authenticity and meaning.


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