Today children are bombarded by images of violence in the media and encounter its existence in their schools, their local neighborhoods, and sometimes even in their own families. In the aftermath of the Gulf War or in the wake of the violence of Oklahoma City, children ask Why... Why did it happen?

This is the question Daniel asks his parents when they find out their neighborhood grocery store is robbed and Mr. James, the owner and their friend, is hurt. With the help of his parents and his teacher, Daniel is able to deal with his feelings of being angry, afraid, and sad. Talking about his feelings, feeling the love and safety of his home, and finding ways to express his feelings constructively help him cope with the violent incident. Despite the fact that the world is often unfair and cruel, Daniel learns from his parents, teachers and neighbors ways to treat people with empathy, respect and compassion.

This book also includes a Note to Parents which gives parents tips on ways to be supportive and compassionate as well as healing and life-enhancing when dealing with the cruelty and violence in our world today. As the author states, "There is no way our children can be shielded from the existence of violence, but opening up a dialogue and sensitively responding to their concerns does help." This book is meant to be read to and discussed with children in the home or in the RE program after a violent event has occurred. Or it can be used in children's worship, family worship and parent gatherings when grappling with the reality of living in a violent world. This book was published in 1994 by Morrow and Co. of New York City and is available for $15.00 from your local bookstore.