Becoming a Strong Ally 101

• Assume that oppression in some form is everywhere, everyday.
• Notice how oppressions are denied, minimized, and justified.
• Read books and articles to increase your understanding of, and sensitivity to, the needs, aspirations, and concerns of others.
• Understand and learn from the history of racism, heterosexism, ableism, ageism, etc.
• Understand the connections between oppressions, economic issues, and other forms of injustice.
• Take a stand against injustice.
• Be strategic. Decide what is important to challenge and what is not.
• Intervene when someone disrespects or demeans another because of their race, gender, disability, sexual orientation, age, economic status, etc.
• Support the leadership of people who have historically been oppressed.
• Don’t do it alone. Build coalitions and networks, work with already established groups.
• Talk with your children and other young people about oppression.
• Work to bridge differences rather than insist on similarity of views.
• Learn as much as you can about the shifting tactics of hate groups.
• Don’t assume you know what’s best for an individual or group.
• Listen to the stories, experiences, and voices of others.
• Reflect on the impact of your own background and challenge your own cultural assumptions.
• Notice who is the center of attention and who is the center of power.
• Eliminate outdated and unhelpful terms such as “minority, oriental, handicapped, homo, etc.”
• Write letters to the editors and management of newspapers, television and radio stations expressing support for efforts to reduce prejudice, discrimination, and oppression.
• Notice and name dynamics of privilege and oppression that occur in coalitions.
• Form partnerships with communities and congregations of color.
• Work with advocacy groups for bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender people’s rights.
• Connect service efforts with advocacy for economic justice.
• Create accessible spaces and communities.

  
  Revised 6/03 from original by Jacqui James, UUA Director for Anti-Oppression Resources
  

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