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Campbell, Letourneau, Caron
Margot Campbell Gross (l) marries Denis Letourneau & Seph Caron
Paul & Paul
Newly married Denis Letourneau Paul & Seph Caron Paul

September 9, 2005: Pastoral letter to California from the Rev. William Sinkford

California UUs "Stand on the Side of Love" in support of Freedom to Marry activities

On Sunday, Feb. 13, 2005, across California, more than 65 Unitarian Universalist congregations worshipped, sang, and focused their lobbying efforts toward a common goal - telling the state legislature and the Governor of California that they stand on the side of love and seek equal marriage for all loving couples. Read more about their activities and see photos of their efforts as you visit the links below.

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Struggle for Equal Marriage Receives Blow from Supreme Court, But Final Decision Lies Ahead

Background: On February 10, 2004, San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom asked County Clerk Nancy Alfaro to "determine what changes should be made to the forms and documents used to apply for and issue marriage licenses in order to provide marriage licenses on a non-discriminatory basis, without regard to gender or sexual orientation." On Feburary 13, 2004, Newsom began performing marriages at City Hall for same sex couples, marrying nearly 100 couples that day.

A group known as the Campaign for California Families immediately went to court to try and block Newsom and city officials from issuing licenses, but the Court refused to issue a stay, and the marriages continued, with nearly 4,000 performed in February and March. Mayor Newsom, who said that he did not accept that same sex marriages were against state law, asked, "Where is the fundamental decency to extend the same privileges and rights the rest of us are afforded? What is the fundamental right to perpetuate a policy of separate but unequal that people seem to suggest is a compromise?"

Assemblyman Mark Leno, who shared officiating duties at City Hall with the city assessor and four of her deputies, formally introduced legislation that would legalize same-sex marriage throughout California. "It is a tandem challenge," said Leno, a Democrat from San Francisco. "One will be heard in a judicial setting, and the other in a legislative setting."

UUs Celebrate
UU ministers responded to the ruling of Newsom and in San Francisco, Margot Campbell Gross, co-minister of the First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Francisco, signed her first marriage license in seven years, after having boycotted the signing of marriage licenses until same-sex couples could legally wed. Campbell Gross and her colleague, the Rev. John Marsh, joined Denis and Seph Paul in marriage in February, 2004. Denis Paul recalled, "when we heard that City Hall would be open all weekend issuing marriage licences and marrying same-sex couples, we decided we couldn't let the opportunity pass. We met at City Hall at noon [on Saturday], after I had called family to let them know what was happening. Despite the wonderful party atmosphere of being in line, and the fact that we had a 4-1/2 hour wait in front of us, it all felt so rushed. It occurred to us that we didn't have to get married by a complete stranger at City Hall." Denis Paul went on to relate that both John Marsh and Margot Campbell Gross came to City Hall, and, he said, "suddenly, our little rushed wedding felt huge. It felt like a milestone."

Joellynn K. Monahan, a UU seminarian studying at the Pacific School of Religion, recalled, Saturday was the best Valentine's Day I ever had: I was at City Hall in San Francisco! Two UCC colleagues and I robed and spent the day blessing and congratulating couples while they waited in line. We prayed with some families, heard and witnessed many stories, offered support as folks managed the many emotions which came up on such an occasion, and celebrated with all. Though some were together two or five years, most couples we spoke with have been together between 10 and 36 years! People of all sexual orientations were honking horns and cheering "congratulations" as they drove by on busy Van Ness Avenue...a couple of people went and bought hundreds of roses to hand out to the waiting couples, others brought food, someone brought a wedding cake and fancy napkins and was handing out pieces to the couples and their guests! The whole town was celebrating with the LGBT community!

"As we spent time with folks, many people wanted to know 'Who are you robed women?' It was a tremendous joy to share that I am a Unitarian Universalist seminarian, and that we celebrate the unions/marriages/partnerships of all people, ordain LGBT folks, and that our faith tells us that we can celebrate love in all its beautiful forms. What a privilege and joy it was to be there!"

Court Ruling Ends Marriages
In March 2004, the California Supreme Court ordered a stop to the marriages, citing the state's family code which defines marriage as a union between a man and a woman. On August 12, 2004, the court issued its ruling,External Sites which found that the Mayor had exceeded the bounds of the law in sanctioning these marriages.

The justices separately decided with a 5-2 vote to nullify the 3,995 marriages peformed between February 12 and March 11, when the court halted the weddings.

Following the ruling, UUA President William G. Sinkford issued a statement which said, in part, "In light of the California Supreme Court's ruling, I wish to offer my support to the thousands of brave couples who were married in San Francisco earlier this year. We honor their efforts to gain the freedom to legally care for their partners, a freedom that I believe to be a fundamental civil right. These couples bear witness to the enduring personal and social significance of marriage. I call upon people of faith to continue to uphold and honor this vital institution, while working to ensure equal access to all loving and committed couples who wish to enter into it."]

A second and critically important issue, on whether state laws may restrict marriages to opposite-sex couples only, is working its way through the courts and is expected to be ruled on in the next year.

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Testimony and public statements by UUs supporting same sex marriage in California

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