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| Margot Campbell Gross (l) marries
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| Newly married Denis Letourneau
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September 9, 2005: Pastoral letter to California from the Rev. William Sinkford
California UUs "Stand on the Side of Love" in support of Freedom
to Marry activities
On Sunday, Feb. 13, 2005, across California, more than 65 Unitarian Universalist
congregations worshipped, sang, and focused their lobbying efforts toward a
common goal - telling the state legislature and the Governor of California that
they stand on the side of love and seek equal marriage for all loving couples.
Read more about their activities and see photos of their efforts as you visit
the links below.
Additional Information:
Media Coverage:
Struggle for Equal Marriage Receives Blow from Supreme Court, But Final Decision
Lies Ahead
Background: On February 10, 2004, San Francisco
Mayor Gavin Newsom asked County Clerk Nancy Alfaro to "determine
what changes should be made to the forms and documents used to apply
for and issue marriage licenses in order to provide marriage licenses
on a non-discriminatory basis, without regard to gender or sexual
orientation." On Feburary 13, 2004, Newsom began performing
marriages at City Hall for same sex couples, marrying nearly 100
couples that day.
A group known as the Campaign for California Families immediately
went to court to try and block Newsom and city officials from issuing
licenses, but the Court refused to issue a stay, and the marriages
continued, with nearly 4,000 performed in February and March. Mayor
Newsom, who said that he did not accept that same sex marriages
were against state law, asked, "Where is the fundamental decency
to extend the same privileges and rights the rest of us are afforded?
What is the fundamental right to perpetuate a policy of separate
but unequal that people seem to suggest is a compromise?"
Assemblyman Mark Leno, who shared officiating duties at City Hall
with the city assessor and four of her deputies, formally introduced
legislation that would legalize same-sex marriage throughout California.
"It is a tandem challenge," said Leno, a Democrat from
San Francisco. "One will be heard in a judicial setting, and
the other in a legislative setting."
UUs Celebrate
UU ministers responded to the ruling of Newsom and in San Francisco,
Margot Campbell Gross, co-minister of the First Unitarian Universalist
Church of San Francisco, signed her first marriage license in seven
years, after having boycotted the signing of marriage licenses until
same-sex couples could legally wed. Campbell Gross and her colleague,
the Rev. John Marsh, joined Denis and Seph Paul in marriage in February,
2004. Denis Paul recalled, "when we heard that City Hall would
be open all weekend issuing marriage licences and marrying same-sex
couples, we decided we couldn't let the opportunity pass. We met
at City Hall at noon [on Saturday], after I had called family to
let them know what was happening. Despite the wonderful party atmosphere
of being in line, and the fact that we had a 4-1/2 hour wait in
front of us, it all felt so rushed. It occurred to us that we didn't
have to get married by a complete stranger at City Hall." Denis
Paul went on to relate that both John Marsh and Margot Campbell
Gross came to City Hall, and, he said, "suddenly, our little
rushed wedding felt huge. It felt like a milestone."
Joellynn K. Monahan, a UU seminarian studying at the Pacific School
of Religion, recalled, Saturday was the best Valentine's Day I ever
had: I was at City Hall in San Francisco! Two UCC colleagues and
I robed and spent the day blessing and congratulating couples while
they waited in line. We prayed with some families, heard and witnessed
many stories, offered support as folks managed the many emotions
which came up on such an occasion, and celebrated with all. Though
some were together two or five years, most couples we spoke with
have been together between 10 and 36 years! People of all sexual
orientations were honking horns and cheering "congratulations"
as they drove by on busy Van Ness Avenue...a couple of people went
and bought hundreds of roses to hand out to the waiting couples,
others brought food, someone brought a wedding cake and fancy napkins
and was handing out pieces to the couples and their guests! The
whole town was celebrating with the LGBT community!
"As we spent time with folks, many people wanted to know 'Who
are you robed women?' It was a tremendous joy to share that I am
a Unitarian Universalist seminarian, and that we celebrate the unions/marriages/partnerships
of all people, ordain LGBT folks, and that our faith tells us that
we can celebrate love in all its beautiful forms. What a privilege
and joy it was to be there!"
Court Ruling Ends Marriages
In March 2004, the California Supreme Court ordered a stop to the
marriages, citing the state's family code which defines marriage
as a union between a man and a woman. On August 12, 2004, the
court issued its ruling,
which found that the Mayor had exceeded the bounds of the law in
sanctioning these marriages.
The justices separately decided with a 5-2 vote to nullify the
3,995 marriages peformed between February 12 and March 11, when
the court halted the weddings.
Following the ruling, UUA
President William G. Sinkford issued a statement which said,
in part, "In light of the California Supreme Court's ruling,
I wish to offer my support to the thousands of brave couples who
were married in San Francisco earlier this year. We honor their
efforts to gain the freedom to legally care for their partners,
a freedom that I believe to be a fundamental civil right. These
couples bear witness to the enduring personal and social significance
of marriage. I call upon people of faith to continue to uphold and
honor this vital institution, while working to ensure equal access
to all loving and committed couples who wish to enter into it."]
A second and critically important issue, on whether state laws
may restrict marriages to opposite-sex couples only, is working
its way through the courts and is expected to be ruled on in the
next year.
Media Coverage
(all links below are for external sites, some may require a username/password
others may archive articles after a period of time):
Testimony and public statements by UUs supporting same sex marriage in
California
For further information on same sex marriage in California
(all links below are for external sites):
Archival Coverage from the UUA:
Additional Resources:
Archival Coverage from the UUA:
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